> abusive language/notation basically everywhere in math
In most cases it is not as much abusing notation as overloading it. If you think of the context of a formula (say, adjacent paragraphs) as its implicit arguments (think lambda captures in c++), then it is natural that curly braces can denote both a set and a sequence, depending on this implicit input.
Such context dependent use of symbols is actually rather convenient with a little practice.
In most cases it is not as much abusing notation as overloading it. If you think of the context of a formula (say, adjacent paragraphs) as its implicit arguments (think lambda captures in c++), then it is natural that curly braces can denote both a set and a sequence, depending on this implicit input.
Such context dependent use of symbols is actually rather convenient with a little practice.