I’ve been in tech (SWE) and consulting for 15 years, much of that in early-stage startups. I’m a founder myself and once had a fallout with a cofounder and friend. I’ve also seen other companies die because of cofounder conflict.
I’ve seen stats that say 65% of high-potential startups fail due to cofounder tension. Yet as far as I know, most incubators and accelerators don’t provide tools for alignment, decision-making, or conflict prevention.
Recently a former colleague in a 3-person founding team told me they were on the brink of breaking up. I’ve spent the last 5+ years teaching and facilitating Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and conflict resolution, so I worked with them for a month. We set up communication norms and a disagreement protocol. They’re still together and say their comms are improving.
I’m starting to think these kinds of skills and protocols could really help build trust within teams and de-risk venture investments.
I’m curious about your experiences:
- Have you seen good ways to prevent conflict from surfacing in the first place?
- When disagreements do come up, what has helped manage or resolve them?
- Have you seen incubators, accelerators, or investors provide any support in this area?
- Looking back, what blindspots did you have early on that led to conflict or rupture later?
- At the core of the conflict, what do you think was really going on? Do you think it could have been worked out with more support?
I’ve seen stats that say 65% of high-potential startups fail due to cofounder tension. Yet as far as I know, most incubators and accelerators don’t provide tools for alignment, decision-making, or conflict prevention.
Recently a former colleague in a 3-person founding team told me they were on the brink of breaking up. I’ve spent the last 5+ years teaching and facilitating Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and conflict resolution, so I worked with them for a month. We set up communication norms and a disagreement protocol. They’re still together and say their comms are improving.
I’m starting to think these kinds of skills and protocols could really help build trust within teams and de-risk venture investments.
I’m curious about your experiences:
- Have you seen good ways to prevent conflict from surfacing in the first place?
- When disagreements do come up, what has helped manage or resolve them?
- Have you seen incubators, accelerators, or investors provide any support in this area?
- Looking back, what blindspots did you have early on that led to conflict or rupture later?
- At the core of the conflict, what do you think was really going on? Do you think it could have been worked out with more support?