I'm autistic, and what you describe doing sounds impossible to me. I live in constant fear of inconveniencing others. I personally find it inconvenient when someone outside my close circle wants my time.
It's expensive for me to perform socialness, so I tend to assume it's not free for others as well and avoid placing that burden on them.
It's expensive for me to perform socialness, so I tend to assume it's not free for others as well and avoid placing that burden on them.