I think about this sometimes, and my upbringing wasn't great, but it feels like the past is the past so I should move on. I've tried to bring it up to family before but it wasn't well received.
If this is something you've struggled with (trading value for love), have you found ways to break out of that cycle?
If this is something you've struggled with (trading value for love), have you found ways to break out of that cycle?