My current project is using React Native (for native and web) and getting GraphQL setup was initially a pain, but having React and GraphQL subscriptions gives me enough of the "live" functionality, but without having to worry about connection issues. With gql-tada, I get fully typed experience on the front-end too.
If I didn't need native functionality, I'd probably just use the recently released `phoenix_vite`: https://github.com/LostKobrakai/phoenix_vite