I'm not quite sure what's your question here? Very much similar to any other system which needs to reboot and you getting ready to these reboots in advance.
To some extent, of course things like vSphere/Virtuozzo and even LXD/Incus, and even simple Qemu/Virsh systems can do live migration of VMs, so you may care less on preparing things inside VMs to be fault taulerant, but to some extent.
I.e. if your team do run PostgreSQL, your run it in cluster with Patroni and VIPs and all that lovely industry standard magic and tell dev teams to use that VIP as entry point (in reality things bit more complicated with Haproxy/Pgbouncer on top, but enough to express the idea).
To some extent, of course things like vSphere/Virtuozzo and even LXD/Incus, and even simple Qemu/Virsh systems can do live migration of VMs, so you may care less on preparing things inside VMs to be fault taulerant, but to some extent.
I.e. if your team do run PostgreSQL, your run it in cluster with Patroni and VIPs and all that lovely industry standard magic and tell dev teams to use that VIP as entry point (in reality things bit more complicated with Haproxy/Pgbouncer on top, but enough to express the idea).