Polling is the way to go, but it's also very tricky to get right. In particular, it's non-trivial to make a reliable queue that's also fast when transactions are held open and vacuum isn't able to clean tuples. E.g. "get the first available tuple" might have to skip over 1000s of dead tuples.
Holding transactions open is an anti-pattern for sure, but it's occasionally useful. E.g. pg_repack keeps a transaction open while it runs, and I believe vacuum also holds an open transaction part of the time too. It's also nice if your database doesn't melt whenever this happens on accident.
Holding transactions open is an anti-pattern for sure, but it's occasionally useful. E.g. pg_repack keeps a transaction open while it runs, and I believe vacuum also holds an open transaction part of the time too. It's also nice if your database doesn't melt whenever this happens on accident.