Comment by david_allison

> I don’t know what to do about how toxicity has become so normalised in online spaces that people don’t even bother to flag it.

You find a new moderator who won't stand for it. They start escalating moderation action, and the wider moderation team follows their example

If you're at the point where your community is so toxic that you can't find a moderator... you need a ban wave. Good luck