Sometimes asking, "When will we..." is just a turn of phrase, but sometimes it's a serious misframing of the issue. There is no such thing as "we" that meaningfully acts or makes decisions. Thinking about "we" as if it's real because the individuals in "we" are capable of choosing is the fallacy of composition.
If you want collective outcomes that are different than the sum of uncoordinated individual action, you have to design them. Don't talk about "we." Who specifically is doing what, and for what purpose, and why would they do that, when they could just not?
Answering those questions often shows you that the problem isn't what you thought—because the mental model of a "we" that does things is so harmful.
Or you end up with a plan to solve the problem, so win-win.
If you want collective outcomes that are different than the sum of uncoordinated individual action, you have to design them. Don't talk about "we." Who specifically is doing what, and for what purpose, and why would they do that, when they could just not?
Answering those questions often shows you that the problem isn't what you thought—because the mental model of a "we" that does things is so harmful.
Or you end up with a plan to solve the problem, so win-win.