> For the unfortunate person falling into the black hole, there is nothing special about the event horizon.
This is from a simplified model using black holes with infinite lifetime, which is non-physical. Almost all textbook Penrose diagrams use this invalid assumption and shouldn't be relied upon..
Fundamentally, external observers and infalling observers can't disagree on "what happens", just the timing of events. If external observers never see someone falling in, then they didn't fall in.
This is from a simplified model using black holes with infinite lifetime, which is non-physical. Almost all textbook Penrose diagrams use this invalid assumption and shouldn't be relied upon..
Fundamentally, external observers and infalling observers can't disagree on "what happens", just the timing of events. If external observers never see someone falling in, then they didn't fall in.