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Comment by Trasmatta

This is the common advice, but it's also resulted in many of these hobby based events being overrun by people who are primarily there looking to find a date. It can be a weird dynamic.

My suggestion is get a hobby that you explicitly are interested in, but don't go in with an expectation that you'll find someone, or make that your primary goal.

> Chances are you present yourself way better in the real world vs online

For many of us I don't think this is true

parent Trasmatta 2 years ago

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