The pejorative usage of "brogrammer" is more like "a programmer who displays all the worst characteristics normally associated with high school jocks" -- things like arrogance, misogyny, bullying, and unwarranted aggression.
(Not rendering any judgment on whether you do or don't fit this definition, just making sure everyone is clear on what was being implied above.)
(Not rendering any judgment on whether you do or don't fit this definition, just making sure everyone is clear on what was being implied above.)