Ask HN: Elixir or Rust for back end in 2024 or something else?

Looking for a solid solution for a back end for a game and mobile app server. We can't roll the usual Epic/Xbox PaaS as we need to a little more flexibility.

Are Rust or Elixir still the got to's for dependability or should Go get a look in. Bonus points for good web tooling outside of an API back end.