I feel like we have this discussion every month, one way or another.
People use Discord because it's useful and they like the experience. Discourse is nice for purely written communication but if you want to setup a call, direct message and, more importantly, write bots (presentation, topic organization, news, modding, now even AI Q&A); people will fall back to Discord.
Pointing at Discourse when it doesn't have the same value proposition and blaming users is just not useful at all.
People use Discord because it's useful and they like the experience. Discourse is nice for purely written communication but if you want to setup a call, direct message and, more importantly, write bots (presentation, topic organization, news, modding, now even AI Q&A); people will fall back to Discord.
Pointing at Discourse when it doesn't have the same value proposition and blaming users is just not useful at all.