I really identified with that part too. I also really liked what you said about the idea of solving a problem vs making a problem go away. Tell me if you think I'm wrong, but I've always believed that the 4 things those two different philosophies/approaches have in common is that they both require:
1.) elevating others' needs (the problem you're solving) above your own
2.) Sensitivity to others' needs
3.) Earnestness
4.) A world/psychology/personal belief system that's positive sum and collaborative in a global sense (outside of context-dependent contests and competition that are limited in scope).
1.) elevating others' needs (the problem you're solving) above your own
2.) Sensitivity to others' needs
3.) Earnestness
4.) A world/psychology/personal belief system that's positive sum and collaborative in a global sense (outside of context-dependent contests and competition that are limited in scope).