Are you familiar with the Open Source Guides Best Practices for Maintainers [1] and Maintaining Balance for Open Source Maintainers [2]?
Perhaps these helpful pages and the resources linked within may give you some guidance on how experienced maintainers can handle such matters without a hostility-first mindset.
Perhaps these helpful pages and the resources linked within may give you some guidance on how experienced maintainers can handle such matters without a hostility-first mindset.
[1] https://opensource.guide/best-practices/
[2] https://opensource.guide/maintaining-balance-for-open-source...