Fight yourself. Fight yourself all day as the world doesn’t revolve around you. Learn how to compensate for tote issues. Do t change up everything, but learn to communicate. Carry something to fidget with that allows your hand to move as much as needed which then allows the body to be a little bit calmer and focused.
I carry a satin sash everywhere that I constantly play with. Always out of sight, but I’m playing with it. It allows me to take some of that energy and spend it there while I fight myself to pay attention.
You’ve stated issues you have focusing on the interview. Work on those. Go get purposely bored and work on those skills.
It’s not fun. It sucks. But you’re not going to change until the pain of change is less than the pain of staying the same.
I carry a satin sash everywhere that I constantly play with. Always out of sight, but I’m playing with it. It allows me to take some of that energy and spend it there while I fight myself to pay attention.
You’ve stated issues you have focusing on the interview. Work on those. Go get purposely bored and work on those skills.
It’s not fun. It sucks. But you’re not going to change until the pain of change is less than the pain of staying the same.