They need deadlines where they feel shame if they fail. And they will do anything to avoid having them. To provide the necessary structure and disciplining as a partner is next to impossible in a relationship of equals.
They need some external force to exert pressure, which is usually a strict boss and job, but usually they will just leave their job if the income is not needed.
A lot of ADHD advice promotes being more empathetic and forgiving, but ultimately they need a much stricter regime than the rest.
They need some external force to exert pressure, which is usually a strict boss and job, but usually they will just leave their job if the income is not needed.
A lot of ADHD advice promotes being more empathetic and forgiving, but ultimately they need a much stricter regime than the rest.