Comment by irrational

I have 11 siblings and 75 first cousins. But, we lived thousands of miles away from any of those cousins, so I never got to know them very well and now have no contact with them. In the other hand, my daughter has a single cousin around her same age who lived about three hours away growing up, so they saw each other a few times a year, Now, as adults, even though they live in different countries, they still maintain their friendship and are frequently in contact. Bottom line, you can have a lot of cousins or few, but what matters more is how frequently you see each other.