My old boy went through a good amount of nasty stuff in Vietnam, but was from the stuff upper lip school of emotion. He suppressed it pretty well, but it stayed with him.
The stuff the commenters describe as being labeled trauma, such as being yelled at, doesn't reach the threshold of being problematic trauma by a reasonable person.
The stuff the commenters describe as being labeled trauma, such as being yelled at, doesn't reach the threshold of being problematic trauma by a reasonable person.