My wife and I always struggle with the "where to eat" loop. Our solution is to have one person has to pick three options, then the other picks from that list.
It narrows the scope of the decision for both people (I only have to pick three or I only have to pick from this list), and ensures that everyone has skin in the final call
It narrows the scope of the decision for both people (I only have to pick three or I only have to pick from this list), and ensures that everyone has skin in the final call