Well I an tell you right now you don't need 4wd, it snows like a MF where I live and if you have FWD with proper snow tires (which you should regardless), you will drive circles around 4WD/AWD cars with just all season tires on in winter.
Just buy a mid-2010's honda civic or a toyota camry.
Just buy a mid-2010's honda civic or a toyota camry.