Okay, go tell {your wife, your children, your parents, etc}, and say: “I love you, but there’s a part of of you that I just can’t accept and want to change.” Will they think you still love them? Do you think you can love them that way?
Your love to them should be a source of power to accept all of them. Your love to life should empower you to embrace death.
Your love to them should be a source of power to accept all of them. Your love to life should empower you to embrace death.