Comment by SadTrombone

I've tried Defined recently and it did the job just fine, but the thing about Tailscale (and others in the space like ZeroTier) that put it ahead of something like Defined/Nebula for me is that I don't have to run my own servers/infrastructure for lighthouses and relays. I understand that everyone has their own preferences and some might want to host this themselves for privacy reasons and whatnot, but for me as a single end user I'm glad Tailscale just handles all the infra for me.