>If I had to give only one bit of advice to anyone ever faced with an ultimatum from someone with power over them (be it an employer or abusive romantic partner), it would be:
>Ultimately, never choose the one giving you an ultimatum.
This is such great advice. When you are given an ultimatum it is very revealing. Pretend to comply as the author advises, then find something else.
Your sense of self-worth is more valuable than salary or position prestige. If you comply long term, you lose a part of your self and persona.
>Ultimately, never choose the one giving you an ultimatum.
This is such great advice. When you are given an ultimatum it is very revealing. Pretend to comply as the author advises, then find something else.
Your sense of self-worth is more valuable than salary or position prestige. If you comply long term, you lose a part of your self and persona.