IMO... infra teams need to realize that folks "othering" their infrastructure means the infra team isn't meeting their needs. Infra teams are now competing against DIY and PaaS solutions, especially all of the fly by night YC startups. Infra teams need to prove their worth or get out of the way and let the devs go buy a solution that replaces the infra team. The business cares about time to market, not the perfect little homegrown PaaS the infra team built.
For the record, I'm an infrastructure person.