Your list of first-world grievances also describes: healthcare workers, literally anyone in the trades, grocery store employees, retail, etc. At some point tech employees have convinced themselves that they are likewise "essential" employees and deserving of special exceptions. But the fact of the matter is most tech jobs, apps, etc. could go away tomorrow and life would continue unabated (in contrast to the list above). Sure, with mild inconveniences, but society will find a way. It also proves how easily replaceable you are by employees in developing countries who are glad to show up in person to the office (for 1/6th the pay).
Also, who doesn't bring their own coffee from home vs. drinking the three-day-old moldy diarrhea at the office?
Also, who doesn't bring their own coffee from home vs. drinking the three-day-old moldy diarrhea at the office?