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Comment by astrange

> You don’t get to decide whether someone else’s feelings are valid or not.

This is a dangerous thing to tell people dealing with an abuser/a psychopath/BPD whatevertheyrecalled. I'm willing to state many people's feelings are not valid.

(Stronger statement: true selves don't exist and other people's opinion of you is often more correct than your self-identification.)

parent astrange 3 years ago

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