I'm not sure how padded pushup bras, glossy lips, and tight fitting clothes became "largely expected". I don't think any father or husband pushes the women in their lives to do this, so I have to assume it's done by women for their own reasons.
I like to think of women as intelligent people so I assume they are aware of what they are doing.
I like to think of women as intelligent people so I assume they are aware of what they are doing.