I agree with you. But, and this is a big but, it's a tradeoff. You also get benefits.
This is why I said "buy-in". If you are comfortable with doing things in their way, you get a ton of leverage: easily consistent code, a fast and productive "get off the ground" experience. The downside is what you described.
Personally I'm just not a fan anymore of these things. You quickly produce code that _looks_ clean and consistent. But it's also bloated and brittle, especially if you need to break out of the happy path. A framework like that is great if you don't do software design, but more of a hindrance if you do. There's no framework that can help you do a holistic solution. For that you need good tooling, a robust foundation (AKA not PHP and probably not JS) and a simple design.
Again: Trade off.
That's why many here in these discussions will tell you that X or Y is the best thing since sliced bread - because it fits their needs almost perfectly. But you also get many (like us) who have at least some reservations, because had to bend over backwards to fit a square peg into a round hole and ultimately wasted so much time that using X or Y wasn't worth it at all.
This is why I said "buy-in". If you are comfortable with doing things in their way, you get a ton of leverage: easily consistent code, a fast and productive "get off the ground" experience. The downside is what you described.
Personally I'm just not a fan anymore of these things. You quickly produce code that _looks_ clean and consistent. But it's also bloated and brittle, especially if you need to break out of the happy path. A framework like that is great if you don't do software design, but more of a hindrance if you do. There's no framework that can help you do a holistic solution. For that you need good tooling, a robust foundation (AKA not PHP and probably not JS) and a simple design.
Again: Trade off.
That's why many here in these discussions will tell you that X or Y is the best thing since sliced bread - because it fits their needs almost perfectly. But you also get many (like us) who have at least some reservations, because had to bend over backwards to fit a square peg into a round hole and ultimately wasted so much time that using X or Y wasn't worth it at all.