I've moved 4 times in my adult life. The two biggest issues I've had with making friends is the lack of a gathering place for like minded people, and being accepted by existing cliques.
If you don't drink, go to church, or have kids, it is damned hard to find a place to hang out and meet other 30-40 year olds.
If you don't drink, go to church, or have kids, it is damned hard to find a place to hang out and meet other 30-40 year olds.