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Comment by hombre_fatal

I'd wonder how many women this guy (and guys who relate to this post) are incidentally meeting every week.

When I was in my mid 20s after uni, it was basically zero. Just women at work, if even that.

If so, this is basically the result you can expect and nothing is going to change until you get those numbers up.

The common thread I see with guys not meeting women is almost never "I meet a lot of women but they never like me". It almost always cashes out into "oh yeah, I don't really meet women anyways." Yet they'll carry around this whole constellation of self-limiting beliefs as if they were living the former scenario.

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