> Meanwhile we have distros lagging behind for years to provide a new package because they can't break all the things depending on the old version.
I'm glad I left this category of problems behind me 5 years ago when I switched both, my personal and my work laptop to arch-linux/i3wm. These two machines have been running for 5 years, almost daily, with almost no issues, with the latest software packages. If the hardware lasts, I will go on like this for another 3 to 5 years and then upgrade hardware and (maybe) switch to wayland. I don't see anything on the horizon which would make me switch away from this setup.
I'm glad I left this category of problems behind me 5 years ago when I switched both, my personal and my work laptop to arch-linux/i3wm. These two machines have been running for 5 years, almost daily, with almost no issues, with the latest software packages. If the hardware lasts, I will go on like this for another 3 to 5 years and then upgrade hardware and (maybe) switch to wayland. I don't see anything on the horizon which would make me switch away from this setup.