okay, but do you really think that you didn't just self-own this one? with all of the data out there about people, you honestly don't think someone can find out your wife's name, then find out who she's married with, and then find out what accounts that person (you) has on websites? hell, your wife's now previous employer probably has teams of people that could do this in 5 minutes.
I'm sorry, but I just hope your emotional state isn't blocking logic here.
I'm sorry, but I just hope your emotional state isn't blocking logic here.