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Comment by bloopernova

For young, single heterosexual men; cultivate deep platonic friendships with women.

Get a hobby, do charity work, find something where you meet and become good friends with multiple women of different ages and backgrounds. Do not ever attempt to date any of these women.

Why? Because most men know woefully few women, and your life will be much richer. A lot of men know very little about the experiences, fears, and hopes of women.

Be there for them. Ask them for advice. Ask them for feedback on your appearance and your personality. Tell them your hopes and fears, and listen to their feedback.

You'll become a much better partner because of it, and your romantic relationships will be far more satisfying.

parent bloopernova 3 years ago

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