Thanks! this is a correct answer. Indeed I stated the conjecture a bit imprecisely in the blog post (the paper is more detailed in this respect).
Just to make it fully precise, the conjecture was that if you take any $D_r$ graph, and force any color in the center (to avoid parity considerations that shift the chessboard pattern, assume the center color is different from $1$), then you can packing-color it if and only if you can do so after enforcing the chessboard pattern.
In simpler words, the conjecture was that you could assume without loss of generality that the 1s would make a chessboard pattern, and this is not true in general. It is however likely that a modified version of the chessboard conjecture is true. In particular, Don Knuth thinks it holds for all diamonds of odd radius. There is a precise way of formalizing his variant of the conjecture. However, I'm not too inclined to work on it now that the core problem has been solved...
About the "why 6 in the center?" implicit question in your comment: this is a nice question and I unfortunately only have a speculative answer (which is stated to some degree in the paper as we have an entire section on how to choose the center-color). In some sense, there's not really a way to answer this question super nicely: this is the smallest counter-example, and for some reason of the mathematical universe no smaller counter-example exists. I'm 90% sure that 6 is the smallest center-color for which a counter-example of this size exists. It's definitely possible to run 5 more experiments to confirm this, although given that it costs money to do so (even if neither me or my advisor are directly paying for the computing resources), I'm not sure if it's worth doing.
Just to make it fully precise, the conjecture was that if you take any $D_r$ graph, and force any color in the center (to avoid parity considerations that shift the chessboard pattern, assume the center color is different from $1$), then you can packing-color it if and only if you can do so after enforcing the chessboard pattern.
In simpler words, the conjecture was that you could assume without loss of generality that the 1s would make a chessboard pattern, and this is not true in general. It is however likely that a modified version of the chessboard conjecture is true. In particular, Don Knuth thinks it holds for all diamonds of odd radius. There is a precise way of formalizing his variant of the conjecture. However, I'm not too inclined to work on it now that the core problem has been solved...
About the "why 6 in the center?" implicit question in your comment: this is a nice question and I unfortunately only have a speculative answer (which is stated to some degree in the paper as we have an entire section on how to choose the center-color). In some sense, there's not really a way to answer this question super nicely: this is the smallest counter-example, and for some reason of the mathematical universe no smaller counter-example exists. I'm 90% sure that 6 is the smallest center-color for which a counter-example of this size exists. It's definitely possible to run 5 more experiments to confirm this, although given that it costs money to do so (even if neither me or my advisor are directly paying for the computing resources), I'm not sure if it's worth doing.