I would worry less about the money, things usually work out. You also need to identify all of your options. Does your partner now qualify for SSI, disability and/or Medicaid? If they do get Medicaid. Otherwise the Affordable Care Act will limit your/their financial exposure as well.
Next, you need to build a support system of friends and possibly family (if they can come over for a time to help).
Some states have better options than others, especially for caregiving. You want to look into personal care assistants. It can be very difficult to find people but
Next, you need to build a support system of friends and possibly family (if they can come over for a time to help).
https://www.usa.gov/disability-caregiver
Some states have better options than others, especially for caregiving. You want to look into personal care assistants. It can be very difficult to find people but