> But there are smart people who get all this stuff "easily" (previous practice, exposure).
Or, simply by virtue of being more intelligent. Life is not fair, and some people do have it easier than others, without having to pay for it with extra study time.
If you are pursuing a research career, and you observe other students putting similar amounts of effort, but obtaining much better results, understanding things more quickly and getting better ideas, you should probably just drop out. Not everyone can be world class athlete, and not everyone can be a world class researcher, and refusing to accept it will often lead to wasted years and wasted potential: many people who are not smart enough to do top research often can achieve great success in eg. corporate world or startups, or achieve higher family goals and do it earlier (most people will be made more happy by their children than by publishing a mediocre paper that nobody will read). Being hell-bent on following a particular dream can bring a lot of misery.
Or, simply by virtue of being more intelligent. Life is not fair, and some people do have it easier than others, without having to pay for it with extra study time.
If you are pursuing a research career, and you observe other students putting similar amounts of effort, but obtaining much better results, understanding things more quickly and getting better ideas, you should probably just drop out. Not everyone can be world class athlete, and not everyone can be a world class researcher, and refusing to accept it will often lead to wasted years and wasted potential: many people who are not smart enough to do top research often can achieve great success in eg. corporate world or startups, or achieve higher family goals and do it earlier (most people will be made more happy by their children than by publishing a mediocre paper that nobody will read). Being hell-bent on following a particular dream can bring a lot of misery.