Ask HN: Is it normal to like people at a distance and dislike otherwise?

People wise, as I grow older, I seem to like keeping people at a distance i.e meet them in person and go out for food at most once a year and no contact beyond that. Beyond that distance, people tire me, bore me. I seem to have no interest in getting to know them better other than while conversing during that one meetup/year. I actively dislike people who try to keep in touch all the time and want to grow closer. Was wondering if anyone else is like this?