Comment Comment by scarface74 A shit sandwich is1. Spend time saying something positive2. “This is why you suck”3. Spend time saying something positive.Let’s just get to #2. Don’t waste time trying to protect my feelings. Most of the time even for #2 you waste time trying not to be too “hurtful”.Only discussing #2 avoids wasting time and helped me improve and get to a solution.I can be diplomatic when necessary. But it’s like when you are learning a foreign language and translating everything in your head. parent scarface74 3 years ago
1. Spend time saying something positive
2. “This is why you suck”
3. Spend time saying something positive.
Let’s just get to #2. Don’t waste time trying to protect my feelings. Most of the time even for #2 you waste time trying not to be too “hurtful”.
Only discussing #2 avoids wasting time and helped me improve and get to a solution.
I can be diplomatic when necessary. But it’s like when you are learning a foreign language and translating everything in your head.