Comment by lukhas

Currently it's "-Xms30g -Xmx30g -XX:+UseG1GC -XX:+PrintCodeCache -XX:ProfiledCodeHeapSize=500m -XX:NonProfiledCodeHeapSize=500m -XX:NonNMethodCodeHeapSize=24m -XX:ReservedCodeCacheSize=1024m -XX:InitialCodeCacheSize=1024m -XX:ParallelGCThreads=24"

Everything after G1GC was suggested by various helpful experts on HN, Discord, by email and other media.