Comment by whatshisface

I think you have those switched around, the one where something is wrong with you is if you're lazy, ADHD would be if something was wrong with your inborn biological configuration. If you want a reason for that, it's because the "you" that is responsible for their actions and subject to criticism is the one that can listen to words and control stuff, which doesn't extend to the looser sense of the word "you" that includes what your face looks like or how your various receptors are shaped.