i feel you bro.
its easy to understand other peoples point of view and at the same time seeing what their viewpoint misses. again beeing aware that myself is limited too.
it thought me beeing empathic with everybody but beeing able to say not my point of view. i guess its called becoming wise.
since its a pattern of aging which you can do ofcause with different style, i recommend reading into anthroposophical-biography-work to understand the patterns of human morphing thru life.
I am happy that I was blessed to learn about it. Now over 50 I still can recommend digging into it.
Best age is around mid 30 to grasp what's ahead.
E.g.
https://www.amazon.com/Human-Life-George-ONeil/dp/092997901X
https://en.giorgiotarditispagnoli.com/post/anthroposophical-...