This is absolutely true - when I was at Bitbucket (ages ago at this point) and we were having issues with our DB server (mostly due to scaling), almost everyone we talked to said "buy a bigger box until you can't any more" because of how complex (and indirectly expensive) the alternatives are - sharding and microservices both have a ton more failure points than a single large box.
I'm sure they eventually moved off that single primary box, but for many years Bitbucket was run off 1 primary in each datacenter (with a failover), and a few read-only copies. If you're getting to the point where one database isn't enough, you're either doing something pretty weird, are working on a specific problem which needs a more complicated setup, or have grown to the point where investing in a microservice architecture starts to make sense.
I'm sure they eventually moved off that single primary box, but for many years Bitbucket was run off 1 primary in each datacenter (with a failover), and a few read-only copies. If you're getting to the point where one database isn't enough, you're either doing something pretty weird, are working on a specific problem which needs a more complicated setup, or have grown to the point where investing in a microservice architecture starts to make sense.