Yes, I think you're quite right with the OCD type personality. The communication about these various minor things does also tend to increase when she's more stressed/anxious.
I feel like it's generally under control and we mostly have a good balance/compromise established, but I could be totally wrong, just like the article author!
I feel like it's generally under control and we mostly have a good balance/compromise established, but I could be totally wrong, just like the article author!