Are you... gatekeeping a mental illness you don't have? :)
I'm a software engineer with ADHD. I've been diagnosed by doctors, psychologists, and even imagery (SPECT scans). I work at a big tech company, and I'm very senior and well paid.
They're totally compatible. It's not easy, but by adulthood most of us have a lot of skills to compensate, and sometimes medication.
I'd liken focus with my ADHD to holding a firehouse - it's actually incredibly powerful, but difficult to control.
I'm a software engineer with ADHD. I've been diagnosed by doctors, psychologists, and even imagery (SPECT scans). I work at a big tech company, and I'm very senior and well paid.
They're totally compatible. It's not easy, but by adulthood most of us have a lot of skills to compensate, and sometimes medication.
I'd liken focus with my ADHD to holding a firehouse - it's actually incredibly powerful, but difficult to control.