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Comment by TrackerFF

Life Pro Tip: Always apologize if you make a mistake, even if the apology is delayed. I went around far too long with this "don't apologize for anything" power move mindset, but truth be told - you turn into a colossal douchebag. People remember, simple as that...and if you have even an ounce of conscience, it will all add up. I can understand that narcissists and such can go through their lives without giving a shit.

People that never apologize is a huge red flag.

edit: To expand on this

Yes, being on the other end of the scale is not good - being a pushover that comes off too insecure, can come with its own set of problems. Perception is a bitch, and unfortunately something you'll get evaluated/judged on in your career.

I've seen that especially in tech, there are lots of very opinionated workers, that take things like knowledge very personal. It's okay to not engage in discussions you're not 100% sure/confident on, or just tell someone that you'll get back to them when you know.

Just know that some people know they're wrong, but will still try to steamroll you. It's just one of many suppression techniques.

parent TrackerFF 4 years ago

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