If you would judge other people by such shallow standards, you should assume they are judging you by the same standards.
And: therefore you and they are not friends, you are merely using them as a social climber. If your relationship with all your friends is based on their utility to advance your status, you don’t actually have any friends.
If you would judge other people by such shallow standards, you should assume they are judging you by the same standards.
And: therefore you and they are not friends, you are merely using them as a social climber. If your relationship with all your friends is based on their utility to advance your status, you don’t actually have any friends.