What happened to a little tough love now and then? If we just give excuses or write off known methods that work as “compassion” or “self love”, what even drives someone to make a significant change in their lives?
When I was bigger, it wasn’t being kind to myself that helped me lose weight. It wasn’t holding those bad habits either.
When I was lazier, it wasn’t being mindless and disorganized that helped me do more.
When I was determined, it wasn’t telling myself “it’ll be okay” if I didn’t follow through with a goal.
I accepted the fact that I was overweight, lazy, and not motivated. Instead of saying “that’s okay, you’re human”, I made drastic change to the ideal version I wanted to be. This isn’t productivity porn, this is just reality.
I’m either getting old and out of touch or this article just doesn’t make sense to me at all.
When I was bigger, it wasn’t being kind to myself that helped me lose weight. It wasn’t holding those bad habits either.
When I was lazier, it wasn’t being mindless and disorganized that helped me do more.
When I was determined, it wasn’t telling myself “it’ll be okay” if I didn’t follow through with a goal.
I accepted the fact that I was overweight, lazy, and not motivated. Instead of saying “that’s okay, you’re human”, I made drastic change to the ideal version I wanted to be. This isn’t productivity porn, this is just reality.
I’m either getting old and out of touch or this article just doesn’t make sense to me at all.