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Comment by PaulHoule

"Tacit knowledge cannot be externalized" is a cruel thing for me to hear when it comes to social skills.

Ty Tashiro writes about how "awkward" people

https://www.ted.com/talks/ty_tashiro_why_we_re_socially_awkw...

need things to be spelled out and made explicit. With that, we can function as well as anyone. Without that we suffer when we get advice like "be yourself", "read Dale Carnegie", etc.

Ty was lucky to have parents that understood that he needed this and made sure he got it. I didn't. Often it would take me a while to get what came naturally to the other kids and adults never seemed to recognize that, which made me feel really lonely.

parent PaulHoule 4 years ago

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